| For all the brides to be:
My husband and I had decided on a location even before the
official engagement. Sounds different? Well, nothing about
our engagement was normal. We live in Los Angeles and decided
to get married in Scott’s hometown of Michigan. That’s
where Chantelle stepped in. She and I had been acquaintances
for years, but little did I know how involved we’d become
when she agreed to become our wedding planner. Looking back,
I cannot imagine having gone through the experience without
her knowledge and support. I’ll fully admit, I am not
the type of person who dreamt of getting married or who relishes
in details. Who knew that you should start looking for a wedding
site one year prior of the wedding? Chantelle did.
I began a search online and she helped map sites in Michigan
(prior to the wedding, she had never been to Michigan). After
the wedding, I think she knew Michigan better than most people
who were born and raised there. She knew which questions to
ask. Questions I would never have thought of. She knew how
to order and arrange the invitations. She knew how to deal
with the hotel managers, reception managers, which questions
to ask the cake lady, the lingo with the florist. What’s
a long and low? Chantelle knew. She confirmed again and again
all the vendors, number of guests, time of ceremony and more.
I thought I could do most of it, but with all the stress of
the event and the thought of having all those guests and thinking
of staying within our budget without sacrificing our vision
– it becomes at times overwhelming and I tend to shut
down. In the end, she saved me money. She knew what I needed
and knew what I didn’t need. She thinks ahead and in
the world of wedding planning, thinking ahead can save you
hundreds, even thousands of dollars. That’s where the
wedding planner does her magic. She makes all those decisions
you’d rather not think about. All the things you don’t
want to do, especially the last month before the wedding when
you are overwhelmed and family and friends are helpful, but
you begin to realize they have their own lives and their own
full-time jobs. And honestly, it’s your wedding day,
you are excited….and people are happy for you, but as
a future bride, it’s on your mind 24/7. You want to
talk about what you were thinking about at 4AM, 6AM –
because I was up at all times of the night wondering if I
had remembered to talk to the pastor or confirmed with the
flower girl’s mother about which shoes to wear. Guess
what? Chantelle was always 2 steps ahead of me. Chantelle
loves weddings. She wanted to help us. She was always so willing.
Chantelle ended up saving an incredibly special moment on
the wedding day. Scott and I had spent hours with friends
and family collecting childhood pictures for a montage on
our wedding day. It was perfectly set to music and in perfect
order, but at the last minute, my maid-of honor noticed the
montage would not work with the laptop we had. Chantelle quickly
sent her assistant back to the hotel to grab her own personal
laptop and everything went off perfectly – without us
knowing the problem even existed. That montage was a very
sweet moment and that is how I remember our wedding day...many
special moments in a night. It’s an entire day, but
you remember highlights and when a wedding coordinator can
help make those sweet memories happen, that is priceless.
I also was surprised at how emotional weddings can be for
all involved and invited. Everyone wants to be near the bride
and groom and certain family members are always difficult.
Weddings magnify everything! Chantelle expertly knew what
to say and what to do in her gentle, direct manner. For that
alone – I am indebted to Chantelle for life.
After seeing a wedding that Chantelle has coordinated, you
can never attend a wedding and view it the same way. Our wedding
night proceeded smoothly like a well-directed play. We wanted
the perfect wedding…and Chantelle gave us our perfect
wedding. I wish you the same. Feel free to contact me if you
need any referrals or questions answered.
Daisy Galvis
daisy.galvis@disney.com
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